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Women ask me all the clip whether or not they should pay for dates. It's a big rootage of frenzy because supreme women product their own silver and privation to be fumed as equals. We're not children.

So who pays?

The man pays for the original date.

While I was single, I ready-made the bungle of profitable for first-year dates. I had my own business and musing it was singular honourable to boot in. I never saw any of those guys again. Why? Because I mazed them. When a female offers to pay for a prototypic date, a guy may lift it as secret message for, "This has been deeply nice, but let's be friends."

So let the guy pay the original time. Letting him pay gives you a window into his character, too:

-Does he hint you toward the cheapest items on the menu?

-Does he look forward to sex as a thank-you for the meal? (Yes? Then make a contribution him a robust grip and bowman him goodnight.)

-Is he excessively extravagant? Does he devote too such supply in a desperate try to impressment you?

If you make up one's mind you like the guy ample to see him again, hang around until he finishes paid. Then form him forthright in the eye. Smile intently and say, "I had a grave event. Thank you for meal. What do you say I get it subsequent time?"

Men carry on that secure women wait for them to ever foot the bill, and you've honourable shown this guy you're not one of them.

You've as well complete that you suchlike him, but you've disappeared the orb in his tribunal. He'll either bid you, or he won't (because you in spades will not send for him). If he makes the well-matched shove and calls you, propose a locate or an hum inside your budget.

Then selection up the supervise. He can get it the close time!